The Simple Trick To Cheer Someone Up Instantly (M)
These little treats may be the secret to boosting someone’s mood.
These little treats may be the secret to boosting someone’s mood.
Discover the hidden force shaping your social habits—and why you’re not even aware of it.
It has incredible psychological and physiological power.
It has incredible psychological and physiological power.
Holding someone’s hand is enough to reduce their pain and even synchronise breathing and heart rates, research finds.
Dr Pavel Goldstein, the study’s first author, said:
“The more empathic the partner and the stronger the analgesic effect, the higher the synchronization between the two when they are touching.”
The study is the latest in the area of interpersonal synchronisation.
This is how people’s physiological measures automatically synchronise to those who are around them.
People automatically synchronise their footsteps when walking together and mirror each other’s posture, studies have found.
It has even been shown that when people have a good rapport with each other their brain waves synchronise.
The new study was inspired by Dr Goldstein’s experience with his daughter’s birth:
“My wife was in pain, and all I could think was, ‘What can I do to help her?’ I reached for her hand and it seemed to help.
I wanted to test it out in the lab: Can one really decrease pain with touch, and if so, how?”
For the study couples were either sat together, not touching, sat together touching, or in different rooms.
Then the woman was subjected to some pain.
The results showed that just sitting together was enough to synchronise the couple’s heart rates and breathing.
However, the pain cut this synchronisation, unless the man was allowed to hold his partner’s hand.
Dr Goldstein said:
“It appears that pain totally interrupts this interpersonal synchronization between couples.
Touch brings it back.”
It is not yet clear exactly how holding hands is related is related to the pain-killing effect, Dr Goldstein said:
“It could be that touch is a tool for communicating empathy, resulting in an analgesic, or pain-killing, effect.”
The study was published in the journal Scientific Reports (Goldstein et al., 2017).
Does your name suit your face? A study finds it is a kind of self-fulfilling prophecy.
Find out why you’re no longer enjoying time with friends.
Find out why you’re no longer enjoying time with friends.
Smartphones are killing the simple pleasure we can take from socialising.
Research finds that people enjoy socialising with friends and family more if they avoid using their smartphones.
Using smartphones during a dinner with friends led people to feel more distracted and to enjoy the experience less.
Surprisingly, people who used their smartphones during lulls in the conversation reported feeling more bored.
Score one point for old-fashioned conversation.
Mr Ryan Dwyer, the study’s first author, said:
“As useful as smartphones can be, our findings confirm what many of us likely already suspected.
When we use our phones while we are spending time with people we care about — apart from offending them — we enjoy the experience less than we would if we put our devices away.”
In the research 300 people went to dinner with friends and family at a restaurant.
Half were randomly assigned to keep their phones in their pocket, while the other half kept them on the table.
They were interviewed afterwards to see how much they had enjoyed the meal.
Mr Dwyer explained that people were slightly more bored with their phones out, which was surprising:
“We had predicted that people would be less bored when they had access to their smartphones, because they could entertain themselves if there was a lull in the conversation.”
Another study tested other situations by sending a group of over 100 people text messages five times a day to report how they were feeling and what they were doing.
Once again, people enjoyed socialising with others more if they were not using their phones as well.
Professor Elizabeth Dunn, study co-author, said:
“An important finding of happiness research is that face-to-face interactions are incredibly important for our day-to-day wellbeing.
This study tells us that, if you really need your phone, it’s not going to kill you to use it.
But there is a real and detectable benefit from putting your phone away when you’re spending time with friends and family.”
The study was published in the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology (Dwyer et al., 2017).
Could your high school friend group have spread more than just gossip?
The contagious behaviour provides a significant boost to happiness.
The contagious behaviour provides a significant boost to happiness.
Being nice to others is highly contagious, psychological research finds.
Someone who sees a person being prosocial is more motivated to perform their own act of kindness for another.
Things like running an errand for a neighbour, helping someone in the street or giving a present all tend to be imitated by others who see it.
An act of kindness can ultimately be tripled in value by people subsequently giving more and more.
Seeing other people benefit from kindnesses is an even more powerful motivator for our own prosocial behaviour than when we receive the kindness ourselves.
Nevertheless, acts of kindness are not wholly unselfish, they provide a small, but significant boost to happiness.
Indeed, helping others boost happiness more than helping yourself.
Cooperative behaviour is even more important right now, says Dr Haesung (Annie) Jung, the study’s first author:
“Just like the deadly virus, cooperative behavior can also be transmitted across people.
These findings remind the public that their behavior can impact what others around do; and the more individuals cooperate to stop the spread of the disease, the more likely others nearby will do the same.”
People do not just copy the prosocial behaviour they observe, though, said Dr Jung:
“We found that people can readily improvise new forms of prosocial actions.
They engaged in behaviors that were different from what they witnessed and extended help to different targets in need than those helped by the prosocial model.”
Asian countries have the strongest prosocial contagion effect, followed by European countries, then North America.
Modelling prosocial behaviour is important for tackling the pandemic, said Dr Marlone Henderson, study co-author:
“Many people may choose to avoid social distancing practices because they don’t think they’re likely to contract the virus or experience serious symptoms.
So, one of the best things we can do is frame recommended practices as prosocial actions.
By thinking of recommended practices as prosocial behavior, modeling then becomes a powerful tool for encouraging others to engage in such practices.”
The study was published in the journal Psychological Bulletin (Jung et al., 2020).
“…people think that 32% of Democrats are LGBT (vs. 6% in reality) and 38% of Republicans earn over $250,000 per year (vs. 2% in reality).”
Social loafing leads to decreased group productivity. Learn how to address this issue with simple strategies to boost accountability and performance.
Social loafing is a psychological phenomenon where individuals tend to exert less effort when they work in a group compared to when they work alone.
This tendency to “loaf” is typically seen when individuals feel that their contributions are less identifiable or crucial to the group’s success.
The term originated from studies in social psychology, with the most famous being the Ringelmann experiment in the early 20th century, which found that people pulled less hard on a rope when in a group than when they were alone.
Later studies, such as those by Latané et al. (1979), further developed the concept, suggesting that the reduction in effort is due to both coordination loss and motivation loss.
Coordination loss happens when individuals in a group fail to effectively align their efforts, while motivation loss occurs when individuals do not feel motivated to put in their best effort because others are sharing the workload.
Social loafing doesn’t happen randomly.
Several factors contribute to why people may work less hard when part of a group.
Understanding these causes is essential to identifying and combating social loafing in various environments, including the workplace and educational settings.
Social loafing can have detrimental effects on team dynamics, leading to frustration and lower overall performance.
This can be particularly problematic in work environments where team collaboration is crucial for success.
Reducing social loafing requires intentional strategies from both team leaders and members.
By implementing specific practices, organisations and teams can encourage higher levels of engagement and individual accountability.
The rise of remote work and virtual teams has presented new challenges in managing social loafing.
Without the physical presence of others, it can be harder to monitor team members’ contributions.
The extent to which individuals engage in social loafing can vary based on personality traits and cultural background.
Social loafing is a common phenomenon that can significantly impact team performance, productivity, and morale.
However, with the right strategies, it can be mitigated.
By fostering accountability, clarifying roles, and encouraging team cohesion, organisations can reduce the likelihood of social loafing and create more effective, high-performing teams.
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