Both young and old agree on the most narcissistic generation.
The modern way to develop a personality disorder.
The modern way to develop a personality disorder.
Posting too many pictures to social media can turn you into a narcissist, new research reveals.
People posting pictures heavily to social media became 25% more narcissistic in the four months of the study.
The increase pushed many across the cut-off for having a narcissistic personality disorder.
However, those posting mostly text to social media, such as Twitter, did not see a rise in narcissism.
There has been much debate about whether social media can increase narcissism, explained Professor Phil Reed, who led the study:
“There have been suggestions of links between narcissism and the use of visual postings on social media, such as Facebook, but, until this study, it was not known if narcissists use this form of social media more, or whether using such platforms is associated with the subsequent growth in narcissism.
The results of this study suggest that both occur, but show that posting selfies can increase narcissism.”
The study followed 74 people aged 18 to 34 for four months.
Their social media use was tracked, along with narcissistic personality traits.
People used social media for an average of three hours per day, although some used it for up to 8 hours per day.
Professor Reed said:
“Taking our sample as representative of the population, which there is no reason to doubt, this means that about 20% of people may be at risk of developing such narcissistic traits associated with their excessive visual social media use.
That the predominant usage of social media for the participants was visual, mainly through Facebook, suggests the growth of this personality problem could be seen increasingly more often, unless we recognise the dangers in this form of communication.”
Professor Roberto Truzoli. study co-author, said:
“The use of visual social media may emphasise the perception of narcissistic individuals that they are the main focus of attention.
The lack of immediate ‘direct’ social censure, may offer them the opportunity to inflict aspects of their narcissistic personality, present themselves in a grandiose manner, and realise fantasies of omnipotence.”
The study was published in The Open Psychology Journal (Reed et al., 2018).
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They did not feel guilty about cheating, either.
They did not feel guilty about cheating, either.
Narcissists are more likely to cheat and do not feel as guilty about it, research finds.
The study on academic cheating found that fiddling the test allowed narcissists to show off their academic ability to their peers.
Narcissists often appear more attractive to others, until their real personalities shine through.
Dr Amy Brunell, the study’s first author, explained:
“Narcissists really want to be admired by others, and you look good in college if you’re getting good grades.
They also tend to feel less guilt, so they don’t mind cheating their way to the top.”
Narcissists are highly self-centred and want to show off their skills to others.
A lack of empathy means narcissist feel less guilt for what they do.
Dr Brunell said:
“Narcissists feel the need to maintain a positive self-image and they will sometimes set aside ethical concerns to get what they want.
We found that one of the more harmless parts of narcissism — exhibitionism — is most associated with academic cheating, which is somewhat surprising.”
Typical questions that identify a narcissist include strongly agreeing with the statement “I think I am a special person.”
However, it wasn’t this but the showing off that really drove the narcissists in the study to cheat.
Dr Brunell said:
“You would think that the belief that you are a special person and that you can do what you want would be associated with cheating.
But instead, we’re finding that it is the desire to show off that really seems to drive cheating.”
Narcissists also believed that everyone else was cheating just the same as them, Dr Brunell said:
“One argument might be that narcissists are admitting to cheating, but saying that everyone else does it, too.
But that’s not what we found.
Narcissists actually report more cheating for themselves than they do for others.
It seems likely that the same people causing problems in the workplace and engaging in white collar crime are the ones who were cheating in the classroom.”
High self-esteem — which is quite different from being a narcissist — was not linked to cheating.
Dr Brunell said:
“People with higher levels of self-esteem are probably more confident in their abilities and don’t feel any peer pressure to cheat.”
People with high self-esteem thought others were unlikely to cheat, since they did not need to themselves.
The study was published in the journal Personality and Individual Differences (Brunell et al., 2011).
How to spot a narcissist from their online behaviour.
How to spot a narcissist from their online behaviour.
People who are addicted to Facebook are more likely to be narcissists, new research finds.
The study followed the Facebook use of 179 German students over a year.
All were asked about their personalities and other aspects of their psychological life, like levels of depression and anxiety.
The results showed that people with narcissistic personalities were more likely to get addicted to Facebook.
The study’s authors write:
“Facebook use holds a particular meaning for narcissistic people.
On Facebook, they can quickly initiate many superficial relationships with new Facebook-friends and get a large audience for their well-planned self-presentation.
The more Facebook-friends they have, the higher is the possibility that they attain the popularity and admiration they are seeking; whereas in the offline world they might not be as popular since their interaction partners can quickly perceive their low agreeableness and exaggerated sense of self-importance.”
The researchers also found that Facebook addiction was linked to higher levels of depression and anxiety.
Whether people can really be ‘addicted’ to Facebook is still a controversial issue.
However, people addicted to Facebook typically show the six characteristics of addiction, the authors argue:
“FAD [Facebook Addiction Disorder] is defined by six typical characteristics of addiction disorders: salience (e.g., permanent thinking of Facebook use), tolerance (e.g., requiring increasing time on Facebook to achieve previous positive using effect), mood modification (e.g., mood improvement by Facebook use), relapse (reverting to earlier use pattern after ineffective attempts to reduce Facebook use), withdrawal symptoms (e.g., becoming nervous without possibility to use Facebook), and conflict (e.g., interpersonal problems caused by intensive Facebook use).”
The study was published in the journal PLOS ONE (Brailovskaia & Margraf, 2017).
The gender which is more narcissistic and more likely to exploit others.
The gender which is more narcissistic and more likely to exploit others.
Men are more narcissistic than women, on average, a new study finds.
Data from almost half a million people collected across 31 years found that men score higher on narcissism across age groups and generations.
The results are published in the journal Psychological Bulletin (Grijalva et al., 2015).
Dr Emily Grijalva, the study’s lead author, said:
“Narcissism is associated with various interpersonal dysfunctions, including an inability to maintain healthy long-term relationships, unethical behavior and aggression.
At the same time, narcissism is shown to boost self-esteem, emotional stability and the tendency to emerge as a leader.
By examining gender differences in narcissism, we may be able to explain gender disparities in these important outcomes.”
The largest gaps between the genders were found in entitlement.
This suggests men are more likely to feel privileged and to exploit others.
Dr Grijalva said:
“Compared with women, men exhibit more assertiveness and desire for power, but there was no difference in the exhibitionism aspect, meaning both genders are equally likely to display vanity or self-absorption.”
As with many gender differences, however, the study only found a relatively small overall difference between men and women.
There are way more differences between different people than there are between men and women, on average.
The researchers also checked to see if college students were becoming more narcissistic over time.
But there was no evidence that we are living in a more narcissistic age than we were 30 years ago.
One explanation for the difference may be in gender stereotypes.
Since most people expect men to be more narcissistic, they may behave that way in response.
Dr Grijalva said:
“Individuals tend to observe and learn gender roles from a young age, and may face backlash for deviating from society’s expectations.
In particular, women often receive harsh criticism for being aggressive or authoritative, which creates pressure for women, more so than for men, to suppress displays of narcissistic behavior.”
Narcissistic image from Shutterstock
Facebook is a mirror while Twitter is a megaphone.
A study on both Facebook and Twitter reveals connections between narcissism and how people use social media (Panek et al., 2013).
According to the University of Michigan study, the way people use Facebook is like a mirror, to reflect their personality. Twitter, though, is more like a megaphone: for broadcasting.
To reach these conclusions, Panek and colleagues carried out two studies. In the first, college students were asked how they used social media and given personality assessments. Among this younger age-group, the narcissists preferred to use Twitter to broadcast their opinions to others.
The lead researcher, Elliot Panek, explained:
“Young people may overevaluate the importance of their own opinions. Through Twitter, they’re trying to broaden their social circles and broadcast their views about a wide range of topics and issues.”
In a second study, people whose average age was 35 were asked about their social media use. This revealed that the narcissists among the slightly older age-group preferred Facebook.
Panek explained that for this age-group:
“It’s about curating your own image, how you are seen, and also checking on how others respond to this image. Middle-aged adults usually have already formed their social selves, and they use social media to gain approval from those who are already in their social circles.”
Image credit: Robert S. Donovan
Narcissists are convinced they are God’s gift, but what do the rest of us really think?
Narcissists themselves think they are sexy. In comparison with non-narcissists, they claim to:
But they are preening, manipulative, self-obsessed, narcissists; they would say that. How about we use more objective measures than just asking narcissists how great they think they are?
Dufner et al. (2013) have done just that in a new series of studies published in Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin.
In these narcissists were rated by strangers, by their friends and had their dating skills tested in the field.
In the first study participants looked at written profiles of people either low, medium or high in narcissism. They then rated them for their appeal as both a friend and as a partner.
What emerged was that the profiles high in narcissism did not predict friend-appeal but were rated as more attractive as potential mates.
Score one for the narcissists.
A second study moved out of the lab and asked the friends of real, live narcissists about how attractive and socially bold their friends were. Once again the narcissists emerged as more socially bold and attractive than their non-narcissistic peers.
Score two for the narcissists.
Finally men were sent out onto the street to try and get the telephone numbers of passing women. When the results came in, it was the narcissists who had scored the most phone numbers and who were rated most attractive by those they approached.
Score three for the narcissists.
Overall it turned out that it wasn’t just that narcissists were better looking (although they often were) or that they had higher self-esteem; it was their self-enhancing thoughts that made them more attractive to others. They thought they were great, so other people thought they were great.
These self-enhancing thoughts enhanced their social boldness, which turned other people on.
For those non-narcissists among us, bear in mind that this research is all about short-term mate appeal. Over the long-term, many quickly get fed up with narcissists’ self-obsessed behaviour (more on the paradoxes of narcissism). But in the short-term the narcissists have it.
So, if you’re a perfectly normal non-narcissist looking to boost your sex-appeal, it’s time to get in touch with your inner narcissist. To give you a head-start, here are the type of questions that narcissists strongly endorse (from Jonason & Webster, 2010):
If you’re thinking like this then you’re thinking like a narcissist.
Not that I’m recommending it of course.
Image credit: Hannah Kate
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