3 ‘Toxic’ Emotions That Can Skyrocket Your Motivation (P)

Learn how your darkest emotions can actually be your strongest motivators.

Emotions play a crucial role in motivation, often serving as a driving force that propels us toward our goals.

When properly harnessed, emotions can turn vague intentions into concrete actions and sustain our momentum during challenging times.

The benefits of positive emotions, such as enthusiasm, excitement, or love for a particular activity, are well-known.

But not all motivating emotions are positive, and even negative emotions can be powerful motivators when approached mindfully.

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Why Planning To Slip Up Can Help You Reach Long-Term Goals (M)

You don’t have to be perfect to reach your goals — why planning to cheat might actually help.

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Exercise: 12 Proven Ways To Get Moving & Stay Motivated (P)

Ever wondered why some people stay motivated to work out while others struggle? These psychology-backed tips might just hold the key.

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Finding the motivation to exercise consistently can feel like a battle, even for the most determined.

This article reveals 12 psychology-backed strategies that can help you stay motivated to exercise, even when you don’t feel like it.

Whether you’re struggling to get started or finding it hard to keep going, these tips will help you tap into the mental tricks that make all the difference.

From choosing the right type of exercise and working out with similar others to using the power of imagination and the buddy system, these insights will transform the way you approach fitness.

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2 Positive Personality Traits That Support Good Mental Health

Both personality traits can be increased with practice.

Both personality traits can be increased with practice.

Working towards long-term goals is a trainable key to good mental health, research finds. People who keep following their dreams are less likely to suffer from depression, anxiety or panic attacks. The other trait that helps people maintain good mental health is being optimistic. Both being optimistic and persistent can be increased with practice. Dr Nur Hani Zainal, the study’s first author, said:
“Perseverance cultivates a sense of purposefulness that can create resilience against or decrease current levels of major depressive disorder, generalized anxiety disorder and panic disorder. Looking on the bright side of unfortunate events has the same effect because people feel that life is meaningful, understandable and manageable.”
The study included 3,294 people who were surveyed three times over 18 years. Each time they were asked about their goal persistence and positive reappraisals. Along with other questions, they were asked if they agreed with statements like:
  • “When I encounter problems, I don’t give up until I solve them.”
  • “I can find something positive, even in the worst situations.”
People who agreed with these statements early in the study had a reduced incidence of depression, anxiety and panic disorders 18 years on. Those who had better mental health at the start of the study also found it easier to focus on the positive and keep working at their long-term goals, the researchers found. Dr Zainal said:
“Our findings suggest that people can improve their mental health by raising or maintaining high levels of tenacity, resilience and optimism. Aspiring toward personal and career goals can make people feel like their lives have meaning. On the other hand, disengaging from striving toward those aims or having a cynical attitude can have high mental health costs.”
Self-mastery, which the researchers also measured, was not linked to mental health. Dr Michelle G. Newman, study co-author, said:
“This could have been because the participants, on average, did not show any changes in their use of self-mastery over time. It is possible that self-mastery is a relatively stable part of a person’s character that does not easily change.”
Giving up can lead to vicious circle, said Dr Zainal:
“Clinicians can help their clients understand the vicious cycle caused by giving up on professional and personal aspirations. Giving up may offer temporary emotional relief but can increase the risk of setbacks as regret and disappointment set in. Boosting a patient’s optimism and resilience by committing to specific courses of actions to make dreams come to full fruition despite obstacles can generate more positive moods and a sense of purpose.”
The study was published in the Journal of Abnormal Psychology (Zainal et al., 2019).

The Simple Reason People Do NOT Learn From Failure (M)

There is a strong belief in the power of failure to teach people — but it is misplaced.

There is a strong belief in the power of failure to teach people -- but it is misplaced.

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Spark: 17 Steps That Will Boost Your Motivation For Anything (Course)

Discover, harness, and sustain your inner drive with the PsyBlog course Spark, which will help empower you to achieve your goals and transform your life.

Discover, harness, and sustain your inner drive with the PsyBlog course Spark, which will help empower you to achieve your goals and transform your life.


Spark: PsyBlog’s second online course

Spark is PsyBlog’s second online course, after Activate, both of which are included in the Premium Membership.

The course is designed to help you discover, harness, and sustain your inner drive, empowering you to achieve your goals and transform your life.

With a Premium Membership you can now access the whole of the ‘Spark’ course immediately online.

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Tap your passion

Being passionate about a project or goal — no matter how big or small — makes us feel alive.

It is invigorating to think about the changes you could make in yourself or in the world.

This is the excitement that this course tries to spark — and keep alive.

The course’s focus is on practical ways to help you turn vague directions and ideas into consuming passions.

No matter whether you only have an uncertain sense of your goal or are half-way towards it, this course can help.

What you will gain from the course

This course is all about the practical steps you can take to work towards your goals.

All the tips, tricks and procedures are based on studies published in scientific journals.

But the focus is on the process of increasing your motivation, not on the studies themselves.

Each of the 17 steps begins with a short summary and has a clear learning point.

The course is divided into three parts:

Part 1: Find your spark

The steps include:

  • Identify your goals for change in the future and where you are at now.
  • Discover the different types of motivation, while establishing what it is that drives you personally forward.
  • Learn simple ways to avoid procrastination and get started.
  • Develop a suite of psychological tools to scaffold your journey towards change.

Part 2: Spark your emotions

The steps include:

  • Learn to use your emotions to help push you forwards.
  • Discover the most motivating attitude towards mistakes and mis-steps and towards the self.
  • Use negative emotions like anger and envy to successfully complete your project.

Part 3: Keep the spark alive

The steps include:

  • Explore your very personal motivation.
  • Notice how changes in your behaviour are reflected in changes to your identity.
  • Review your progress and feed that back in to any changes required.

Be your own motivational coach

This course uses some standard motivational techniques that a therapist or counsellor might use.

Each of the 17 steps is accompanied by a point to stop and think.

These are short pauses for you to reflect on your personal motivation.

They are designed to help you identify specific things like:

  • How and when to get started.
  • What should really be driving you forwards.
  • Which specific emotions can help — how and when.
  • What is stopping you and how to overcome those barriers.

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Want To Achieve Your Goals? Don’t Make This Simple Mistake

The simple reason why most people fail to follow through on their plans.

The simple reason why most people fail to follow through on their plans.

The secret to achieving goals is understanding both the psychology of decision-making and the psychology of implementing our plans.

When people make decisions, they tend to focus on rewards beyond all other considerations.

This is a problem.

A simple example: someone might make a plan to get up earlier in order to leave more time for eating a healthy breakfast before going to work.

However, when it comes to actually getting up early, most prefer ten more minutes in bed.

The reward trap

This is why so many plans fail: people focus on rewards when planning, instead of the barriers they will face.

This pattern of human behaviour was demonstrated in a study in which participants were given both physical and mental tests of effort.

They were told they would be paid varying amounts, depending on the task.

The results showed that, unsurprisingly, people chose tasks that paid more.

Oddly, though, they did not put in that much more effort when the job paid more.

It was the effort required that predicted how well people would do on the mental and physical tasks.

In other words, people dislike doing things that require more effort, even when the reward is proportionately greater.

Dr Agata Ludwiczak, the study’s first author, said:

“Common sense suggests the amount of effort we put into a task directly relates to the level of reward we expect in return.

However, building psychological and economic evidence indicates that often high rewards are not enough to ensure people put in the effort they need to achieve their targets.

We have found that there isn’t a direct relationship between the amount of reward that is at stake and the amount of effort people actually put in.

This is because when we make choices about what effort to put in, we are motivated by the rewards we expect to get back.

But at the point at which we come to actually do what we had said we would do, we focus on the level of effort we have to actually put in rather than the rewards we hoped we would get.”

The study found that the same was true for both mental and physical tasks.

Dr Magda Osman, study co-author, said:

“If we aren’t careful our plans can be informed by unrealistic expectations because we pay too much attention to the rewards.

Then when we face the reality of our choices, we realise the effort is too much and give up.

For example, getting up early to exercise for a new healthy lifestyle might seem like a good choice when we decide on our new year’s resolutions, but once your alarm goes off on a cold January morning, the rewards aren’t enough to get you up and out of bed.”

Related

The study was published in the journal Behavioural Brain Research (Ludwiczak et al., 2020).

Effortless Efficiency: 20 Simple Techniques To Maximize Motivation And Productivity (P)

Discover methods to stop dreaming and start doing, including the importance of sharing your goals with others and utilizing short deadlines.

Discover methods to stop dreaming and start doing, including the importance of sharing your goals with others and utilizing short deadlines.

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