How Anyone Can Control Their Emotions Regardless of Natural Ability

How to keep the emotional brain in check.

How to keep the emotional brain in check.

Some people say that they are just not ‘mindful’ people, and nothing can be done about it.

New research, though, suggests that even those who are not mindful can benefit from meditation to help control their emotions.

Mr Yanli Lin, the study’s first author, said:

“Our findings not only demonstrate that meditation improves emotional health, but that people can acquire these benefits regardless of their ‘natural’ ability to be mindful.

It just takes some practice.”

For the research people were asked to look at a series of upsetting images right after meditating for the first time.

Those meditating for the first time were able to control their emotions just as well as those who were naturally mindful.

They were able to rein in their emotions just as successfully after meditating as those with better inbuilt skills.

Measurements of the electrical activity in the brain also confirmed the improved emotional control after meditation.

Dr Jason Moser, a study co-author, said:

“If you’re a naturally mindful person, and you’re walking around very aware of things, you’re good to go.

You shed your emotions quickly.

If you’re not naturally mindful, then meditating can make you look like a person who walks around with a lot of mindfulness.

But for people who are not naturally mindful and have never meditated, forcing oneself to be mindful ‘in the moment’ doesn’t work.

You’d be better off meditating for 20 minutes.”

Mindfulness is the process of paying attention to thoughts, feelings and sensation in the moment.

→ Read on for more benefits of mindfulness, including quick instructions for mindfulness meditation.

The study was published in the journal Frontiers in Human Neuroscience (Lin et al., 2016).

The ‘Love Hormone’ Produced During Sex Enhances Spirituality

The hormone has already been linked to greater altruism, social bonding and other positive effects.

The hormone has already been linked to greater altruism, social bonding and other positive effects.

Oxytocin — popularly known as the ‘love hormone’ — boosts feelings of spirituality, new research finds.

Men who took the hormone reported feeling more positive and with a greater sense of spirituality up to a week later.

Oxytocin is a neurotransmitter produced during sex.

It has already been linked to greater altruism, social bonding and other positive effects.

Dr Patty Van Cappellen, who led the study, said:

“Spirituality and meditation have each been linked to health and well-being in previous research.

We were interested in understanding biological factors that may enhance those spiritual experiences.

Oxytocin appears to be part of the way our bodies support spiritual beliefs.”

In the study, after taking the hormone, men took part in a guided meditation.

Those given oxytocin were more likely to agree with statements like:

  • “All life is interconnected”
  • “There is a higher plane of consciousness or spirituality that binds all people.”

During the meditation, those taking oxytocin were more likely to say they felt positive emotions like inspiration, hope, love, gratitude and serenity.

Dr Van Cappellen said:

“Spirituality is complex and affected by many factors.

However, oxytocin does seem to affect how we perceive the world and what we believe.”

The study was published in the journal Social Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience (Van Cappellen et al., 2016).

 

6 Ways to Truly Relax Your Mind And Body

Try these 6 steps a few times a week and enjoy the benefits of feeling your mind open up.

Try these 6 steps a few times a week and enjoy the benefits of feeling your mind open up.

We all suffer from the pressures of life from time-to-time.

Time spent relaxing can naturally provide a great antidote.

But relaxation is an art-form in itself that needs to be learnt.

Not everyone is born a good relaxer!

Some people even find time designated for ‘relaxing’ to be terrifying — they would rather be rushing around, keeping busy.

That is only because they haven’t worked out the best way to relax yet.

Try these six steps to help open up your mind and live in the moment.

Step 1: Make time

It can be hard to make time, but believe me it will be worth it.

You will probably need an hour, although whatever time you can spare is fine.

Make sure you won’t be distracted during this time.

Step 2: Wind down

The first step is to wind down from the frenetic pace at which life is lived nowadays.

Very simple activities that allow your mind to wander free will work for this.

Cooking a familiar meal, listening to music, taking a walk — you will know what works best for you.

If you use more formal methods like progressive muscle relaxation or meditation, that is also fine.

Try to avoid alcohol for winding down — it has side-effects and makes it hard to maintain your focus.

Similarly, TV and anything too stimulating will also make it difficult for you to wind down.

The mind needs space to expand.

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Step 3: Find positive emotions

Use your memory to locate positive emotions.

Focus on a good moment in your life.

It doesn’t have to be anything major, although it can be.

Simply a nice smell, the sense of satisfaction of a small job well done or even a memory from years ago will do.

Focus in on that memory for a while and let the emotion wash over you.

Explore it for as long as you like.

Step 4: Give thanks

Consider one or two things in life that you feel grateful for.

They could be anything, but people often choose relationships, such as family and friends.

Or perhaps it could be your health, or even someone who did you a small kindness recently.

Let your mind dwell on that feeling for a while.

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Step 5: Wave at negative thoughts floating past

When letting the mind float free, sometimes it ends up on negative thoughts.

Try to notice these and let them go.

It is important not to push them away, but just to notice them and accept them — just as you might wave at an acquaintance as you pass them on the street.

Then gently refocus your mind to a positive thought or something you are grateful for.

Step 6: Deep focus

After a time, you will probably start to enter a more peaceful state of mind.

Here it feels like you have more time

…and that your time is your own.

Now you have a choice.

If you are enjoying being like this, then carry on.

If you have something meditative that will maintain the state, then now is the time to turn to that.

Open a book you have been meaning to read, start a journal, draw a picture or whatever it is you are in to.

But, if you do choose an activity, make sure it is one that does not disrupt the state of deep focus.

Turning on the TV, for example, will likely ruin the moment.

Shopping online, reading the news or playing video games will not help you maintain the feeling.

Far better than any of those is to maintain the sense of deep focus for as long as you can — even if you focus on nothing more than enjoying the moment.

In fact: especially if you do nothing more than enjoy the moment.

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Why not try these six steps a few times a week and see how it makes you feel….?

7 Simple Ways To Improve Your Attention

In this modern age of multitasking, everyone could do with boosting their attention.

In this modern age of multitasking, everyone could do with boosting their attention.

1. Learn something new

Simply learning new information or using existing knowledge in new ways can help boost attentional skills, a new study finds.

It’s just the same way that young children learn to ‘train’ their brains: they learn new things about the world.

Acquiring knowledge and then thinking about how it fits into what we already know helps boost our attention.

2. Eat chocolate

Dark chocolate can improve attention and a new formula may also lower blood pressure, a study shows.

Professor Larry Stevens, who conducted the study, said:

“Chocolate is indeed a stimulant and it activates the brain in a really special way.

It can increase brain characteristics of attention, and it also significantly affects blood pressure levels.”

The study measured the effects of eating 60% cacao chocolate (commonly called dark chocolate) on the brain waves of 122 participants.

They found that chocolate boosted attention and people were more alert for a period — although their blood pressure increased.

3. Meditate

Practising meditation can help improve your focus while reading, a study finds.

For the research, some people were sent on a one-month intensive vipassanā meditation training program.

They then took a reading test which had nonsensical sentences deliberately placed within it.

Compared with a control group, those who had been practising meditation were better able to detect the gibberish, suggesting they were paying more attention.

4. Self-check

Learning to periodically self-check can improve attention and help people focus better on tasks, recent research finds.

The study used brain imaging to predict when people were starting to lose their focus on a boring task they were given.

The researchers found that after just one training session to improve attention, those who had received the feedback performed better than a control group.

5. Count your breaths

A short breathing exercise is enough to refocus the minds of highly distracted people, new research finds.

Heavy media multitaskers benefited most from simply counting their breaths, psychologists found.

The mindfulness task simply involved counting groups of nine breaths: nine inhales and nine exhales.

Participants did this a few times before being given tests of their attention.

Dr Green explained:

“No one can stay focused on it indefinitely.

When you notice your attention slipping away, you bring it back over and over.

You’re practicing that skill, refocusing your attention.”

6. Brightly coloured room

Brightly coloured rooms can boost your concentration, new research finds.

This is because people perform at their best when somewhat stimulated.

Too much and too little stimulation, though, tends to make people’s performance worse.

The study’s results showed that participants’ reading comprehension was higher in the vividly painted red and yellow rooms.

7. A little language learning

Mental agility can be increased by even a relatively small amount of language learning.

After only a week of study, students show improved attention skills — as well as learning a new language.

Language learners were better able to switch their attention and filter out irrelevant details.

Continuing to learn a new language led to sustained improvements 9 months later, the researchers also found.

Need more pointers? Here you go:

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Yoga And Meditation Beat Crosswords And Memory Training For Preventing Memory Loss

Study included over-55s who had simple memory problems like forgetting names and appointments.

Study included over-55s who had simple memory problems like forgetting names and appointments.

Meditation and yoga are more effective than memory games or crosswords for fighting memory problems linked to Alzheimer’s, new research finds.

Researchers compared two groups of people aged over 55 who reported memory problems like losing things, forgetting names and appointments.

One group were given crosswords and memory training to do over 12 weeks.

The other group did both yoga and meditation for an equivalent amount of time.

Professor Helen Lavretsky, one of the study’s authors, explained the results:

“Memory training was comparable to yoga with meditation in terms of improving memory, but yoga provided a broader benefit than memory training because it also helped with mood, anxiety and coping skills.”

Both groups did one hour per week of their respective tasks.

Kundalini yoga was the type practiced in classes.

It involves focusing on breathing, chanting as well as the visualisation of light.

At home, people in the yoga group practiced 20 minutes of Kirtan Kriya meditation, which is a part of Kundalini yoga.

This type of yoga and meditation has been used in India for hundreds of years.

The researchers found that memory improvements were similar across both the groups.

However, people who did yoga and meditation had better visuo-spatial memory: the type used for navigating and recalling locations.

Yoga and meditation also had better results in reducing depression and anxiety.

It helped people develop higher levels of resilience and increased their ability to cope.

Brain scans showed significant differences in brain function in the yoga meditation group which were not seen in the others.

Mr Harris Eyre, the study’s first author, said:

“Historically and anecdotally, yoga has been thought to be beneficial in aging well, but this is the scientific demonstration of that benefit.

We’re converting historical wisdom into the high level of evidence required for doctors to recommend therapy to their patients.”

Professor Lavretsky concluded:

“If you or your relatives are trying to improve your memory or offset the risk for developing memory loss or dementia, a regular practice of yoga and meditation could be a simple, safe and low-cost solution to improving your brain fitness.”

The study was published in the Journal of Alzheimer’s Disease (Harris et al., 2016).

 

Reading Off Paper Has A Useful Cognitive Benefit Over Tablets Or Laptops

Laptops and tablets are changing the way we think about information — maybe for the worse.

Laptops and tablets are changing the way we think about information — maybe for the worse.

If you want to make more intellectual leaps, it may be better to print out information than read it on a laptop or tablet.

Using tablets and laptops reduces the ability to think in abstract ways, a new study finds.

Instead, people using these digital devices tend to concentrate more on the concrete details of their work.

For the research people read a series of texts either on paper or on a laptop/tablet.

They were then asked questions about them afterwards.

Some of these tested their abstract understanding and others tested their concrete understanding.

When reading off paper, people performed roughly 30% better on questions that required a leap of understanding.

However, the results were reversed when the questions simply required concrete answers.

Dr Geoff Kaufman, one of the study’s authors said:

“There has been a great deal of research on how digital platforms might be affecting attention, distractibility and mindfulness, and these studies build on this work, by focusing on a relatively understudied construct.

Given that psychologists have shown that construal levels can vastly impact outcomes such as self-esteem and goal pursuit, it’s crucial to recognize the role that digitization of information might be having on this important aspect of cognition.”

The conclusions come from four studies with over 300 people.

Professor Mary Flanagan, a study co-author, said:

“Compared to the widespread acceptance of digital devices, as evidenced by millions of apps, ubiquitous smartphones, and the distribution of iPads in schools, surprisingly few studies exist about how digital tools affect our understanding — our cognition.

Knowing the affordances of digital technologies can help us design better software.

Sometimes, it is beneficial to foster abstract thinking, and as we know more, we can design to overcome the tendencies — or deficits — inherent in digital devices,”

The study was presented at ACM CHI ’16, the ACM Conference on Human Factors in Computing Systems on May 10, 2016.

How To Experience Intense Awe And Wonder

Awe and wonder can help people feel more connected and reframe problems.

Awe and wonder can help people feel more connected and reframe problems.

Astronauts who see the Earth from space could provide a clue as to how we can all feel more awe and wonder, new research suggests.

The view from so far away from the Earth provokes a special phenomenon called the overview effect.

Dr David Yaden, the study’s first author, said:

“We watch sunsets whenever we travel to beautiful places to get a little taste of this kind of experience.

These astronauts are having something more extreme.

By studying the more-extreme version of a general phenomenon, you can often learn more about it.”

The researchers analysed the reports of many astronauts from all over the world.

Each had documented their own experience of seeing the Earth from space for extended periods.

They frequently described it as a life-changing experience.

They mentioned ideas like connectedness, vastness, perception and unity.

Despite the religious or spiritual overtones, the experience was very secular for the astronauts, Dr Yaden explained:

“Space is so fascinating because it’s a highly scientific, highly secular environment, so it doesn’t have these connotations.

We think of people who do a lot of meditation or climb mountains, people who are awe junkies, having these experiences.

We don’t [often] think of these very strict scientists reporting these blissful moments.”

The astronauts’ experience is so fascinating — and potentially life-changing — that the researchers want to find out how we can all have more of it in our lives.

Mr Johannes Eichstaedt, one of the study’s co-authors, said:

“Behavior is extremely hard to change, so to stumble across something that has such a profound and reproducible effect, that should make psychologists sit up straight and say:

‘What’s going on here?

How can we have more of this?'”

The researchers are planning a follow-up experiment which will give people the opportunity to gaze at the Earth from space in virtual reality.

Perhaps it will be a life-changing experience — just as it is for the astronauts.

The study was published in the journal Psychology of Consciousness (Yaden et al., 2016).

How To Train Your Mind Not To Wander While Reading

Paying attention to what you are reading can be hard — especially in this age of endless distraction.

Paying attention to what you are reading can be hard — especially in this age of endless distraction.

Practising meditation can help improve your focus while reading, a new study finds.

Maintaining attention when reading can be difficult, as the study’s authors write:

“It is challenging for individuals to maintain their attention on ongoing cognitive tasks without being distracted by task-unrelated thought.

The wandering mind is thus a considerable obstacle when attention must be maintained over time.

Mental training through meditation has been proposed as an effective method of attenuating the ebb and flow of attention to thoughts and feelings that distract from one’s foremost present goals.”

For the research, some people were sent on a one-month intensive vipassanā meditation training program.

They then took a reading test which had nonsensical sentences deliberately placed within it.

Compared with a control group, those who had been practising meditation were better able to detect the gibberish, suggesting they were paying more attention.

The study’s authors write:

“Meditation practitioners across both studies demonstrated greater levels of error monitoring following training, as measured by their ability to detect gross semantic violations in the text.

This suggests that training group participants were more attentive to the story content and ongoing text, allowing them to better detect these salient text discrepancies.”

The study was published in the journal Psychology of Consciousness: Theory, Research, and Practice (Zanesco et al., 2016).

Reading a Novel Boosts Brain Connectivity

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How The Sounds You Make While Eating Could Help You Lose Weight

The “Crunch Effect” can help you eat less.

The “Crunch Effect” can help you eat less.

Being conscious of the sound your food makes in your mouth could help you eat less, a new study finds.

The researchers found that when people could not hear their own eating noises, they ate more.

A different study in the series found that even thinking about the sounds made while eating was enough to reduce consumption.

Dr Ryan Elder, one of the study’s authors, said:

“When you mask the sound of consumption, like when you watch TV while eating, you take away one of those senses and it may cause you to eat more than you would normally.

The effects many not seem huge–one less pretzel–but over the course of a week, month, or year, it could really add up.”

The study may help explain why mindfulness can help people eat less.

Mindfulness helps concentrate the mind on the sensory experience of eating.

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Dr Gina Mohr, the study’s co-author, said:

“For the most part, consumers and researchers have overlooked food sound as an important sensory cue in the eating experience.

Dr Elder agrees:

“Sound is typically labeled as the forgotten food sense.

But if people are more focused on the sound the food makes, it could reduce consumption.”

The study was published in the journal Food Quality and Preference. (Elder & Mohr, 2016).

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Higher Wisdom Is Correlated With A Form Of Dance And Ancient Traditional Practices

Higher wisdom is correlated with these diverse activities.

Higher wisdom is correlated with these diverse activities.

Classical ballet has been linked to increased wisdom by a new study.

The research also confirmed that many varieties of meditation are linked to greater wisdom.

The link, the researcher shows, is down to how meditation reduces anxiety.

Dr Patrick B. Williams, the study’s first author, said:

“We are the first to show an association between wisdom, on the one hand, and mental and somatic practice, on the other.

We’re also the first to suggest that meditation’s ability to reduce everyday anxiety might partially explain this relationship.”

The meditators in the study performed different types of meditation, including:

  • Mindfulness
  • Buddhist
  • Vipassana

Those who practised classical ballet were included in the study almost on a whim.

The results showed that people performing all the different forms of meditation had greater wisdom.

Those practising ballet did not have as high levels as the meditators.

Still, the more ballet they did, the higher their levels of wisdom.

Dr Monika Ardelt, a wisdom researcher who was not involved with the project, said:

“That meditation is associated with wisdom is good to confirm, but the finding that the practice of ballet is associated with increased wisdom is fascinating.

I’m not going to rush out and sign up for ballet, but I think this study will lead to more research on this question.”

Professor Howard Nusbaum, one of the study’s authors, said:

“As we learn more about the kinds of experiences that are related to wisdom, we can gain insight into ways of studying the mechanisms that mediate wisdom.

This also lets us shift from thinking about wisdom as something like a talent to thinking about it as something more like a skill.

And if we think about wisdom as a skill, it is something we can always get better at, if we know how to practice.”

The study was published in the journal PLOS ONE (Williams et al., 2016).

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