People With Emotional Problems Are Raised By Parents Who Do This

Shy children are particularly vulnerable, the study found.

Shy children are particularly vulnerable, the study found.

Children who experience everyday conflict between their parents have problems processing emotions.

These problems can cause anxiety and over-vigilance, leading them to see conflict even when an interaction is neutral.

Shy children are particularly vulnerable, the study also found.

Maltreatment and neglect have been shown to alter how children process emotions.

But this study shows a lower level of adversity can have a negative effect.

Dr Alice Schermerhorn, the study’s author, said:

“The message is clear: even low-level adversity like parental conflict isn’t good for kids.”

For the study, 99 children aged 9-11 were divided into two groups based on how much parental conflict they witnessed.

All were shown pictures of couples engaged in happy, angry or neutral interactions.

Those from high-conflict homes were more likely to see the neutral interactions as either happy or angry — they didn’t seem to know into which category they fitted.

Dr Schermerhorn said:

“If their perception of conflict and threat leads children to be vigilant for signs of trouble, that could lead them to interpret neutral expressions as angry ones or may simply present greater processing challenges.”

Alternatively, Dr Schermerhorn said:

“They may be more tuned into angry interactions, which could be a cue for them to retreat to their room, or happy ones, which could signal that their parents are available to them.

Neutral interactions don’t offer much information, so they may not value them or learn to recognize them.”

Parents of shy children found it hard to identify the neutral picture, Dr Schermerhorn explained:

“Parents of shy children need to be especially thoughtful about how they express conflict.”

Low levels of adversity in the home can have significant effects on children, Dr Schermerhorn said:

“One the one hand, being over-vigilant and anxious can be destabilizing in many different ways.

On the other, correctly reading neutral interactions may not be important for children who live in high conflict homes, but that gap in their perceptual inventory could be damaging in subsequent experiences with, for example, teachers, peers, and partners in romantic relationships.

No one can eliminate conflict altogether, but helping children get the message that, even when they argue, parents care about each other and can work things out is important.”

The study was published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships (Schermerhorn, 2018).

This Music Calms The Unborn Baby & Could Benefit Child Development (M)

The same effect works on adults, who typically respond with a slower heartrate, reduced blood pressure and decreased activity in the sympathetic nervous system.

The same effect works on adults, who typically respond with a slower heartrate, reduced blood pressure and decreased activity in the sympathetic nervous system.

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Children Lacking This Food In Their Diet Are Unkind & Unsociable (M)

Children who don’t eat enough of this food are more likely to be antisocial and unkind.

Children who don't eat enough of this food are more likely to be antisocial and unkind.

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What TV Violence Does To Very Young Minds 10 Years Later (M)

Preschool TV and media habits might have lifelong consequences—here’s what parents need to know.

Preschool TV and media habits might have lifelong consequences—here’s what parents need to know.

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3 Childhood Behaviours Predict Success 50 Years Later

The behaviours were linked to adult occupational success and earning more 50 years later.

The behaviours were linked to adult occupational success and earning more 50 years later.

Being interested in school, being a responsible student and having good reading and writing skills all predict people’s occupational success decades later.

Even 50 years after someone had left high school, these factors still predicted if people had a more prestigious job or not.

Being a good student also predicted how much money people earned 50 years later.

Dr Marion Spengler, who led the research, said:

“Educational researchers, political scientists and economists are increasingly interested in the traits and skills that parents, teachers and schools should foster in children to enhance chances of success later in life.

Our research found that specific behaviors in high school have long-lasting effects for one’s later life.”

The study used data from 346,660 U.S. high school students first collected in 1960.

In addition, 81,912 of them were followed up 11 years later and 1,952 up 50 years later.

The researchers took into account all sorts of other factors like IQ, personality traits and the family’s socioeconomic status.

Dr Spengler said:

“Student characteristics and behaviors were rewarded in high school and led to higher educational attainment, which in turn was related to greater occupational prestige and income later in life

This study highlights the possibility that certain behaviors at crucial periods could have long-term consequences for a person’s life.”

The study was published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology (Spengler et al., 2018).

Favourite Child: These Traits Make Daughters The Chosen Ones (M)

Find out why daughters with certain traits often receive the most attention from their parents.

Find out why daughters with certain traits often receive the most attention from their parents.

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Why Kids Might Prefer Their Pets Over Their Own Family Members

Study shows kids love their pets more than their siblings.

Study shows kids love their pets more than their siblings.

Children are more satisfied with relationships with their pets than their siblings.

Children also seem to get on better with their pets than their siblings.

The research helps to underline the importance of pets for children

Mr Matt Cassells, the study’s first author, said:

”Anyone who has loved a childhood pet knows that we turn to them for companionship and disclosure, just like relationships between people.

We wanted to know how strong these relationships are with pets relative to other close family ties.

Ultimately this may enable us to understand how animals contribute to healthy child development”

The researchers surveyed 12-year-olds from 77 families.

Mr Cassells continued:

‘‘Even though pets may not fully understand or respond verbally, the level of disclosure to pets was no less than to siblings.

The fact that pets cannot understand or talk back may even be a benefit as it means they are completely non-judgmental.

While previous research has often found that boys report stronger relationships with their pets than girls do, we actually found the opposite.

While boys and girls were equally satisfied with their pets, girls reported more disclosure, companionship, and conflict with their pet than did boys, perhaps indicating that girls may interact with their pets in more nuanced ways.’’

Dr Nancy Gee, a study co-author, said:

“Evidence continues to grow showing that pets have positive benefits on human health and community cohesion.

The social support that adolescents receive from pets may well support psychological well-being later in life but there is still more to learn about the long term impact of pets on children’s development.”

The study was published in the Journal of Applied Developmental Psychology (Cassells et al., 2017).

How Growing Up Poor Changes Brain Connectivity And Depression Risk (M)

Childhood poverty rewires the hippocampus and amygdala—key emotional hubs.

Childhood poverty rewires the hippocampus and amygdala—key emotional hubs.

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