The study showed 128 young women personality profiles of various men.
The study showed 128 young women personality profiles of various men.
Extraverts with stable, or non-neurotic personalities are particularly attractive.
However, both of these personality traits also help explain the attraction of the ‘bad boy’ to women, who also tends to be laid-back and extraverted.
Narcissist and psychopaths are seen as both extraverted and having stable, non-neurotic personalities, the study found.
Both of these contribute to the attractiveness of men with ‘dark triad’ personalities.
The ‘dark triad’ of personality factors includes narcissism and psychopathy, along with Machiavellianism.
The study’s authors write:
“Women, particularly in respect of short-term mating, may be attracted to ‘bad boys’, possessing confidence, hard-headedness and an inclination to risk-take – all accurate descriptors of Dark Triad [DT] men; all attractive to women.”
Another explanation for the attractiveness of bad boys could be their superficial charm, the authors write:
“Women may be responding to DT men’s ability to ‘sell themselves’; a useful tactic in a co-evolutionary ‘arms race’ in which men convince women to pursue the former’s preferred sexual strategy.
This ability may derive from a ‘used-car dealer’ ability to charm and manipulate, and DT-associated traits such as assertiveness.
Men with a DT personality are undoubtedly well-placed to successfully implement such a strategy.”
The conclusions come from a study in which 128 young women were shown personality profiles of various men.
One was designed to be high in dark triad personality factors.
The results showed that women saw the ‘bad boy’ as more attractive, when appearance was held constant.
Here is the authors’ quick description of the dark triad personality traits:
“Narcissism is defined by a sense of entitlement, dominance and a grandiose self-view.
Machiavellians are interpersonally duplicitous, insincere and extraverted.
Psychopathy consists of callousness, a lack of empathy, and antisocial, erratic behaviour.”
The study was published in the journal Personality and Individual Differences (Carter et al., 2014).
Trying to sound attractive is easier for women than men.
Trying to sound attractive is easier for women than men.
Speaking slowly makes people sound more intelligent.
A lower tone also makes both sexes sound more attractive.
Women asked to talk in a more attractive way for the study automatically lowered the pitch of their voice and made it sound more breathy — which men find attractive.
While women had no trouble changing their voice to make it sound more sexy, men found it harder.
To sound more attractive, both sexes also speak slower, the authors write:
“…both sexes in our sample slowed their speech in comparison to their normal speech when trying to sound attractive/sexy…
Perhaps the slowing of one’s voice in a mating scenario is an attempt to convey approachability, as decreased speaking rate was found to increase the benevolence ratings of a speaker.”
Women, though, when they listened to men trying to sound attractive, were not convinced.
When women tried to sound sexier, it was more convincing.
Dr Susan Hughes, the study’s first author, said:
“This ability may be due to culture and cuts across cultures and time.
There is a stereotype of what is a sexual voice in our culture — a low, breathy voice.”
The study had people trying to intentionally change their voices to embody different traits.
They tried to sound more sexy, confident, intelligent and dominant.
Dr Hughes said men found it difficult to sound sexy:
“In fact, although not significantly, it got a bit worse when men tried to sound sexy.”
Both sexes, though, had no problem sounding more intelligent and more dominant.
The researchers explained the changes people made:
“…both sexes slowed their speech and women lowered their pitch and had greater vocal hoarseness.
Both sexes raised their pitch and spoke louder to sound dominant and women had less vocal hoarseness.”
Women, though, found it hard to sound more confident.
The reason for the differences could be down to practice, the researchers think.
Men do not really focus on making their voice sound sexier, but women do.
The study was published in Journal of Nonverbal Behavior (Hughes et al., 2014).
Smiling makes men more attractive to women looking for long-term relationships, research finds.
But smiling does not make men look more attractive to women looking for a short-term relationship, as they appear less masculine.
The results come from two experiments in which hundreds of women evaluated pictures of men — some of whom were smiling.
The study’s authors explain:
“Smiling enhanced the male attractiveness for long-term relationships but not for short-term relationships.
The facilitative effect of smiling on the long-term partners was observed for East Asian as well as for European participants.
In addition, smiling faces were rated to be less masculine and more trustworthy and mature than neutral faces.”
An evolutionary dating hack
So, smiling makes a man’s face look less masculine, but also more trustworthy.
The study’s authors analyse this in terms of evolutionary psychology.
This is the theory that many of our traits have evolved over the millennia to help the race reproduce.
In other words, at some level, some of the things we do when selecting partners (and other things) are so because our genes have programmed us that way.
Evolutionary psychology suggests two types of mating strategies have evolved.
In the long-term strategy, women are ‘programmed’ to look for someone who will help raise the children.
For that you need someone trustworthy — in other words a man who smiles (among other things, of course!).
The short-term strategy cares less about trustworthiness and more about the genes.
More attractive and masculine men have better genes in this context, so the lack of a smile makes them look like a better bet for a short-term relationship.
As the authors explain it:
“…social and cooperative characteristics would be primarily important for long-term partners but not very much for short-term partners because long-term cooperation is necessary for parenting in the former but not in the latter.
Women put more emphasis on social factors such as trustworthiness for the long-term relationship, where paternal investment is expected, in order to minimize the risk of losing commitment from their partner during pregnancy and parenting.”
The study was published in the journal Evolutionary Psychology (Okubo et al., 2018).
Uncover the psychology behind attraction and learn how to be more attractive with these easy, scientifically proven methods.
This article explores practical, science-backed methods to enhance your attractiveness, focusing on both physical and behavioural traits.
Attractiveness is often considered subjective, with opinions varying depending on personal preferences and cultural norms. However, there are universal traits that science suggests can significantly boost one’s allure. These factors extend beyond superficial qualities and touch on behaviours, mindset, and lifestyle choices that influence how others perceive you.
Physical appearance: The first impression matters
Your physical appearance plays a significant role in attraction, but it’s not just about being conventionally beautiful. Simple adjustments in grooming, posture, and style can dramatically change how others perceive you.
Grooming and personal hygiene
First and foremost, personal grooming is one of the easiest and most effective ways to enhance attractiveness. People tend to notice well-maintained hair, skin, and nails. Cleanliness, in particular, signals good health and self-care, both of which are desirable traits.
Hair care: Healthy, shiny hair is often considered an indicator of vitality. Regular haircuts, keeping your hair clean, and using products suited to your hair type can improve its appearance and make you look well-groomed.
Skin care: Maintaining healthy, glowing skin not only makes you appear more youthful but also suggests that you take care of yourself. Simple skincare routines, including cleansing, moisturising, and using sunscreen, can make a noticeable difference.
Nails: Well-kept nails, whether they’re manicured or left natural, reflect attention to detail. Trimmed nails without chips or dirt can complete your polished look.
Posture and body language
How you carry yourself is just as important as how you look. Studies have shown that good posture can significantly impact how others perceive you.
Standing tall with your shoulders back and your chest open not only makes you appear more confident but also enhances your attractiveness. Poor posture, on the other hand, can make you seem insecure and less approachable.
Confidence through posture: Confident body language is attractive. Practicing good posture helps improve your mood and self-esteem, creating a positive feedback loop that makes you appear more appealing to others.
Eye contact: Making eye contact conveys interest, confidence, and attentiveness. It shows that you are engaged in the conversation and creates a deeper connection with the person you are interacting with.
Clothing: Wear what makes you feel good
It’s not about following the latest trends, but rather finding clothing that flatters your body type and boosts your confidence. When you wear something you feel comfortable and confident in, it shows. Clothing that fits well and suits your personal style can enhance your overall appearance.
Dress for your body: Understanding your body shape and choosing clothes that complement it can help you appear more put-together. Avoid overly tight or loose clothing, as it can affect how you are perceived.
Colours and patterns: The colours you wear can influence how others perceive you. Darker shades tend to give an impression of professionalism and sophistication, while lighter shades can make you appear more approachable and friendly.
Behavioural traits that increase attraction
Attractiveness isn’t solely determined by appearance. How you behave and interact with others is equally important, and certain personality traits can make you more appealing.
Kindness and empathy
One of the most universally attractive traits is kindness. People are naturally drawn to individuals who treat others with respect, empathy, and consideration.
Being considerate: Simple gestures of kindness, such as listening attentively or offering a helping hand, can leave a lasting impression. People appreciate those who make them feel valued and cared for.
Emotional intelligence: Those who can read and respond to the emotions of others are seen as more approachable and emotionally available. Being empathetic and understanding in your interactions can significantly boost your attractiveness.
Sense of humour
Humour is another key trait that can make you more appealing. Laughter is contagious, and people enjoy being around those who can make them smile. A good sense of humour shows that you don’t take life too seriously and that you can create a relaxed, enjoyable atmosphere.
Laugh at yourself: People who can laugh at themselves are often seen as more approachable and less arrogant. Being able to share a joke or lighten the mood can make you seem more fun and easygoing.
Not just about telling jokes: Humour doesn’t have to involve cracking jokes. It can also be about having a positive attitude and being able to enjoy life’s little moments with others.
Confidence and assertiveness
Confidence is an incredibly attractive quality. It doesn’t mean being boastful or arrogant, but having a sense of self-assurance and belief in your abilities. Confident people tend to draw others in because they radiate positivity and trust in themselves.
Assertiveness in communication: Being able to express yourself clearly and confidently can make you seem more competent and attractive. Assertiveness shows that you value your own opinions while respecting the opinions of others.
Avoiding overconfidence: While confidence is attractive, overconfidence can be off-putting. Balance is key—be confident but not overly so.
Inner health and lifestyle habits
Your inner health and lifestyle can also play a role in your attractiveness. Physical and mental health directly affect how you feel about yourself, which in turn influences how others perceive you.
Physical fitness
Regular physical activity not only helps you maintain a healthy body but also boosts your mood and energy levels. Exercise is known to improve circulation, which gives your skin a healthy glow and increases your overall vitality.
Exercise for a natural glow: Engaging in activities like yoga, running, or even walking can increase endorphins, leading to a more radiant appearance. The glow you get after a workout can make you look healthier and more energetic.
Balance in fitness: It’s not about having the perfect body but maintaining a healthy and active lifestyle. Regular exercise helps keep your body in shape, which can positively affect your attractiveness.
Mental clarity and well-being
Mental health is just as important as physical health when it comes to attractiveness. A positive mindset, self-esteem, and emotional well-being are crucial for radiating confidence and approachability.
Stress management: Being able to manage stress effectively can help you maintain a calm and composed appearance. People who are less anxious and more emotionally stable tend to be perceived as more attractive.
Meditation and mindfulness: Practices like meditation can help you clear your mind, reduce stress, and improve your overall outlook on life. A peaceful state of mind can make you more attractive by projecting serenity and confidence.
Conclusion: Enhancing your attractiveness from the inside out
In conclusion, attractiveness is not just about looks; it’s a combination of physical appearance, social behaviours, and inner health. By making conscious efforts to improve your grooming, posture, and style, while also cultivating kindness, empathy, and confidence, you can significantly boost your allure. Taking care of your mental and physical health will not only help you feel better about yourself but will also enhance your appeal to others.
Remember, attraction is not a one-size-fits-all concept. What works for one person might not necessarily work for another. However, by focusing on these universal aspects of attractiveness, you can increase your chances of leaving a lasting positive impression on those around you.
People felt emotionally closer to strangers who did this.
People felt emotionally closer to strangers who did this.
Smiling is one of the best ways to make people instantly like you, research reveals.
However, a smile needs to be real: what psychologists call a ‘Duchenne smile’.
People are highly tuned to the Duchenne smile, which involves upturned lips and crinkly eyes.
Fake smiles are relatively easy to spot and involve only the mouth and not the eyes.
A genuine smile is a strong sign of cooperation and affiliation.
People are generally more aware of positive emotions in other people than negative.
A smile makes people feel emotionally closer to strangers.
Dr Belinda Campos, who led the research, said:
“Our findings provide new evidence of the significance of positive emotions in social settings and highlight the role that positive emotions display in the development of new social connections.
People are highly attuned to the positive emotions of others and can be more attuned to others’ positive emotions than negative emotions.”
For the study, participants watched a video of people interacting and showing both positive and negative emotions.
The results showed that positive emotions are particularly powerful in drawing strangers together.
People felt emotionally closer to strangers who showed positive emotions.
The positive emotion that was particularly attractive was awe.
The study was published in the journal Motivation and Emotion (Campos et al., 2015).
The effect of hot people on your cognitive abilities, revealed by research.
The effect of hot people on your cognitive abilities, revealed by research.
People become cognitively impaired in the presence of an attractive member of the opposite sex, research finds.
The drop in intelligence is particularly strong for men.
The more attractive the woman, the more men’s test scores plummeted, psychologists found.
It may be because men are so concerned about making a good impression that they have few mental resources left over for anything else.
The study involved people talking to members of the opposite sex before completing cognitive tests.
Both sexes performed worse on the tests when they were trying to make a good impression on the other person.
It made no difference whether or not they were already in a relationship or single.
However, men were more often struggling to make a good impression, so their cognitive powers weakened the most.
Impression management is no easy task for the human brain, as the authors explain:
“…leaving a favorable impression on an opposite-sex partner may not always be easy.
Impression management requires careful monitoring and modifying of one’s own behavior to optimize the overall impression an individual wants make on the interaction partner, making it an effortful and cognitively demanding endeavor.
Research by Vohs and colleagues (2005) suggests that impression management indeed generally requires relatively high levels of cognitive control.”
The study was inspired by an experience of one of the study’s authors:
“Some time ago, one of the male authors was chatting with a very attractive girl he had not met before.
While he was anxious to make a good impression, when she asked him where he lived, he suddenly could not remember his street address.
It seemed as if his impression management concerns had temporarily absorbed most of his cognitive resources.”
The study was published in the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology (Karremans et al., 2009).
